Signs That You Are Over The Nightlife
Your twenties are filled with going out at night for some drinking or dancing and just having fun with a group of friends and a bunch of strangers. You meet people by the bar, on the dance floor and even in the bathroom. There is a thrill in this that you’ve found amusing for several years. Getting ready is part of the fun and finding different or new places to go is an adventure. For the most part you enjoyed the entire nightlife experience and while the next day you woke up late, tired, or hungover you usually chose to go out again another night for similar activities. However, now you are changing the way you look at your days and nights, you want to do more and often that does not include a club or bar.
Getting over partying can occur once you get into a relationship or as you get older. If you loved the nightlife there is no telling at what age this happens -could be at 23 or 33 years old,- under what circumstances or if this will even come to pass. The signs that you are over the nightlife involve adjustments to your outlook about what makes you feel great during your weekends and even occasional weekdays. Your day to night or night to day priorities have rearranged.
One possible sign is choosing local bars for more low key nights out. You still want to spend time with your friends who love going out on Friday and Saturday nights after a long week of work, but you want music that’s not bursting your ears off. Most significantly, the local bar won’t be a hassle to find and won’t take up too much of your time -or money- in transportation. Once you leave the faster you will be in bed.
Another sign is that you start leaving to go home earlier. The ringing bell as a sign of last call was once a total bummer, but now you are not at the bar long enough to realize that the place would close soon. In previous years you would stay at the bar and club until they practically kicked you out -now you hardly even wait for your friends to get tired and if one friend suggests leaving early you follow without hesitation. You want to get home before the sun comes up. You want to get home before finding a cab or parking becomes almost impossible. Moreover, you were probably out doing something earlier during the day that has you exhausted or you want to get up early the next day for an adventure -especially if it’s the weekend.
Perhaps the most significant reasoning in leaving nightlife behind or cutting back on it are all the other things that you could be doing instead. Such reasoning is particularly applicable to Saturdays and Sundays when for most people the days are open to an enormity of possibilities. Weekend mornings and days could encompass, hiking, short getaways, sports events, at-home gatherings, or just all-out relaxing. These plans could often leave little room for partying until 4AM -but you’ve reached the point where you are more than okay with this and you don’t want to push yourself to fitting nightlife into your new plans.
Reaching the point of getting over nightlife does not mean you are changing or that you are getting “too old” for it- it just means you are ready for new experiences.