We all know that your man has the hots for you – and everyone else knows it too. So, ladies, relax a little in the comfort of your relationship and avoid doing these things that are sure to make him say goodbye.
1. Pushing Things Along
Wrong. Rome wasn’t built in one day, remember? No matter what stage you are in your relationship, stop digging to reach the next phase. Everyone’s connection is different, and some take longer to unfold. Chances are your man is thinking about your future, but talk about it too much before he’s ready and he’ll take off running.
2. Sex on Day 1
You have to keep a man waiting. Not necessarily until marriage if that’s not what you’re into – but long enough to make him wonder. If you decide to go for it on the first date, your man has already reached the finish line. Make him learn about the thrill of the chase; it will keep things interesting.
3. Snapping When He Talks to Other Girls
A guy wants a confident woman, not someone who loses her mind when he speaks to the opposite sex. Stop asking if so-and-so is prettier than you, because she’s not. He’s with you for a reason – don’t doubt yourself or he’ll start to doubt you, too.
4. Making Small Stuff the Big Stuff
Being a drama queen isn’t something to be proud of. It’s not cute and it’s not going to get you crowned. Don’t sweat the small stuff; it will only bring unneeded tension. No one wants a diva as a wife. His patience will run out quicker than you can blink.
5. Refusing Him a Boy’s Night
He needs a night out just like you. When he tells you he’s just hanging with the boys, he’s drinking a beer and watching some T.V. He needs his space, and you don’t always need to be the center of attention. Grant him this wish and you’ll have him wrapped around your little finger.
