Everyone has been there at least one, someone asks you out and you simply cannot think of a reason to say no other than that you are completely uninterested. Well, you could take the high road and tell them the truth, state how you simply just don’t want to. But, if that’s too harsh for you, then try some of these top notch “Get Out of Date Free” excuses.
#1 “I’m sorry, but I really don’t know if I’m ready to date right now.” This is probably the most realistic you can get with a lie. Saying you’re not ready changes the focus from them to you. They don’t have to feel too bad about not being someone you’d want to date because you’re somply “not ready.”
#2 “I totally forgot that I already made plans with my best friend! Silly Me!” This is an easy one, because it’s not unheard of for people to double book themselves. It also works to say that they’re having some trouble and you’ve got to go help them out. Beware, however – they may try to set up another date on the spot!
#3 “I’m SO sorry, but I got called into work!” You could also let them know that you’ve had a crazy couple of weeks, and you really haven’t had any time to yourself. Always follow it up with something along the lines of “we’ll definitely do something soon, though!”, and be sure to let them know that you will get back to them.
#4 “I got locked out of my house, and I’m waiting for the locksmith!” Be very cautious with this one! If they know where you live, they might offer you help or even drive by to see if it’s the truth.
#5 “I’m really not feeling so good.” Also another one to be cautious with. Some people are ultra sweet and want to come by and bring you soup and ginger ale. Just keep playing the part and say that you think it’s better idea to be alone — so you don’t get them sick — and need to get some rest.
#6 “Personal Issues.” This is the best excuse because you can be as vague as you want, and it isn’t actually a lie – after all, everything you do is personal. If they pry into those “issues,” then you’ll probably be turned off at their disrespect for your privacy, giving you the freedom of not even planning a rain date!
#7 “I don’t know if I see this going anywhere.” This is as close to the truth as you can be without actually stating the truth. If they ask for an elaborate reason, just be honest. The fact is, no matter what you say, they’re going to be upset. Just try to let them down gently!
