- Last Minute Calls. If he’s playing the spontaneity card with you, asking you to do things at the last minute, it’s possible that you weren’t his first choice to begin with. If he really wanted to spend time with you, he probably would have planned it.
- He Never Wants to Go Out. If he’s constantly asking you to just come over, it’s for two reasons: he wants to hook up, and he doesn’t want to run into anyone he might know, like friends, or other women he’s been messing with.
- He Ignores Your Calls. If all you ever get is his voice mail, something fishy is going on – not to mention the fact that you shouldn’t be the one to always call him!
- Doesn’t Introduce You. This applies to both his friends and family. If a guy really likes you and sees things going somewhere, he’s going to make sure he introduces you to the most important people in his life.
- Doesn’t Want You to “Forget” Anything. If he says he doesn’t want you to forget pieces of clothing or even hair accessories at his place, it’s because he doesn’t want you using it as collateral. In other words, he doesn’t want to lock in the certainty of seeing you again. Furthermore, if he’s not asking you to stay over, he definitely only wants one thing.
- Just Friends. If he isn’t calling you his girlfriend after a certain amount of time together, and doesn’t want to discuss any plans of having a future together, then chances are he has no intentions of doing it ever.
- Mixed Signals. One day he’s infatuated with you, the next he’s avoiding you. He doesn’t know what he wants, but when he’s feeling vulnerable, you’re conveniently right where he left you – waiting. Don’t keep waiting around; he’s playing you!
