You and your partner may have one argument about them drinking milk straight out of the carton, but that is not grounds for breaking up. However, if you two are constantly arguing about them cheating, then it is time to break up.
All in all, depending on the subject of the argument, they can be good for relationships. Arguing and bickering can be that outlet to voice your opinions to one another; if they are healthy arguments. Bickering about who is going to drive to the grocery store is innocent and perfectly fine. It can help you reach mutual agreements in your relationship.
On the other hand if an argument is happening and things are getting physical, people are hitting below the belt, then that is obviously not a healthy relationship. Your bickering should not escalate to a full out screaming match.
It is possible and perfectly okay to agree to disagree. Just know that once your relationship has crossed thae line to physically arguing, or if feelings being purposely crushed, there is literally no way around it. Sure a week from now everything is back to “normal” because you all are talking to one another, but is it? Was a solution decided upon as a result of arguing and fighting?
If you cannot learn from your argument as a guide book as to what to do or what to say, then your form of arguing is not healthy.
