Why do all women want bad boys? Ok, perhaps not all but most. Could it be because they never give us what we want from them? Or could it be because they have some mystery that keeps us clinging on? Oh, wait maybe it’s because of the hardcore sex, the abuse and how rough they could be? We all may have had our experiences of the bad boy syndrome. Usually when we meet a good/nice guy, we make them friends, just friends. Yes, the one who would actually treat you nicely, he asks before he touches and he does whatever you desire. Why? We say “he is too nice” he is so cute, or “I love him but not in that way” and you see yourself running into the arms of the bad boy who doesn’t and wouldn’t treasure your heart, and yes, he wouldn’t mind stabbing it with a dagger! He is smooth and every other girl wants him and so do you. Perhaps, these 7 reasons may help you consider dating a nice guy who actually cares and would do anything to crown you the queen.
1. They Don’t Forget – Nice guys will remember whatever means something to you – anniversaries, birthdays, dates, even the things in passing that you don’t even remember, like how you said you loved sugar cookies that one time in the car… 7 months ago!
2. Random Gifts – You’re probably always on their mind, so they’re constantly bringing you little gifts that they thought you would appreciate, just so that they could see you smile!
3. Chivalry – For the women who still appreciate it when men open their car doors for them, or pull up a chair for them at dinner – it’s not dead! It’s just something that only the nice guys have in them.
4. What ego? – They’re not too arrogant to wrap their arms around you or act all “macho” around other men. Instead, they’re doing whatever they can to show you as much love and affection as possible.
5. Boundaries – They won’t force you to do anything that you’re uncomfortable with. While every man would jump at the thought of sex, this nice guy cares about you more than anything, and wouldn’t dream of hurting you or pushing you to do things you aren’t ready for or simply don’t want to do.
6. They Actually Care – Say how you feel and don’t worry about being judged. These are the only guys that actually care about your feelings, and don’t want you hurting. If they think that they’ve done something to hurt you, they’ll do whatever they can to make it up to you, and keep you happy.
7. They Want to Please You – They will do anything for a smile. They want to be the ones that make you happy, no matter the cost. If you want to be appreciated for who you are, pick the nice guy!
