Many of us have been in the position where we are staring at a text and don’t know how to reply or if we should reply at all. You don‘t want to seem too desperate or uncaring. You need to find the perfect balance between what you want to portray and how you want it to come off. So here are some tips and secrets on how to text a guy.
Starting off strong is the key to texting. When initiating conversation it is best to start by asking a question about something you are really interested to know about the person. Texts like “Hey, what are you up to?” give off the message that you are bored. The key is to add value to your text and it will result in an active response. The best way to kill a relationship to make a lifeless conversation. Don’t be boring and definitely do not send one-word texts.
Eliminate all uncertainty when asking to hang out. Meaning, if you are inviting him to a get together, be forward and simple about it. Try texts like “Hey, what are you up to this weekend?…I’m going to… do you want to come?” Be certain about what you are asking and let him respond.
Do not over text. Sending 3 or more messages before he has a chance to respond will have him pulling back.
It is important to flirt back if you are truly interested. Also, while texting it is essential, you show your standards through text. When doing this remember to add a smiley face or a winky face to lighten up the overall meaning of your message.
Remember these tips and make him want you even more!