When you have had an extremely tough or busy day at the office, you may not come home in the mood to have sex. Although sex can be a great stress reliever, it can feel like a routine if you do it just to please your partner. It is completely fine to tell your significant other that you are too tired for sex, but if you are willing, you can use your wardrobe during foreplay to help jump start your libido.
The key to converting a work outfit into a sexy one is ease of access. There is nothing more accessible than skirts. Pencil skirts are often an option seen in romanticized scenes of women working in an office. However, they are not very practical because they are often uncomfortable. Suit dresses can suffice because they have the same amount of accessibility like the tight pencil skirt. But if you feel that one option looks or feels sexier than the other, the choice of which to wear is ultimately yours.
If you do not like wearing skirts, then dress pants that fit well work just as great. The sure fire way to know whether or not your pants fit right, is to drop them! If they do not go past your hips without tugging, then they don’t fit well. Dress pants should not be too tight around the thighs because work clothes usually neutralize your curves. Depending on the cut—boot, flare, or slim, find the right size that fits snug at the waist but can drop to the floor smoothly.
Blouses that tie at the neck are other fun work pieces to consider. Although they may not unravel the entire top when untied, they can make you can feel sexy when your partner pulls the strings. Button up shirts also provides the same playfulness when in bed. The point is to not undo these tops yourself. By allowing your partner to do it, you both feel a sense of suspense, making the moments leading up to sex exciting.
Wearing under garments, like thigh high stockings and lingerie, under your suit can also increase sex drive. Thigh high stockings come off easily—not by you of course, and wearing sexy lingerie underneath your work clothes can remind you of the sensual activities that await you at home. Just to add, it would be like finding buried treasure for your partner.
Keep in mind that you can plan ahead so that you can wear these outfits on the days that you know will be hectic. You do not have to buy new clothes, you just have to get creative with the ones you already have. Strategically putting certain pieces together can help you relax after a long day of work when you can let your partner take control.